#24: We Were Never Meant to Change Alone

Changing the way you've lived for four or five decades doesn't happen overnight. If it hasn't happened yet, that's not proof you're doing it wrong.

In this episode, I talk about why real change takes more repetitions than we expect, and why the unsettled feeling that you should have figured it out by now is not a sign you're failing. I talk about what happens when we compare our day one to somebody else's day 500, what my own coach gave me instead of the shortcuts I kept asking for, and why the being side of change needs as much time as the doing side. I also share the belief that quietly slows down so many capable women, the belief that we should be able to figure it out alone, and the friend who reminded me of something I had walked right past. Self-trust is built through evidence, and it's so much easier to see when someone is there to reflect it back to you.

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